Selecting a boudoir photographer can be a scary process, especially for women. It is important that you do your research, before you choose someone for this type of intimate, and vulnerable shoot. Below you will find a list of recommendations, when choosing the right (and safe) fit for you.
1. Research/vet your photographer(s). If you’re uncomfortable with a male photographer, consider looking for female photographers or husband/wife teams. Look for photographers that belong to established associations, or are recommended by trusted vendors.
2. A photographer that says you can’t bring a friend for safety is a bad photographer.
3. There is NO expectation from the photographer, other than you posing for images. In no way should a photographer be watching you while you’re changing, even if it is a boudoir/nude shoot.
Speaking of expectations, do not be afraid to set clear expectations and boundaries when you’re deciding whether to work with a particular photographer. Are there certain shots you really want? Are there certain poses that you are uncomfortable with?
**Note: I do tend to encourage my subjects to try to push past their comfort level at least a little, as part of the boudoir process. Meaning, try a pose you wouldn’t normally try, in a regular setting, and see how it feels. This is a very special and intimate time for you to get to know yourself. But do NOT allow a photographer to bully you into something that you are not comfortable with, including working with them in the first place.
4. Sign a contract. Get in writing at least an estimate on turnaround time for images.
Also discuss with your photographer what they may use your photos for, such as promotion or portfolio. Many photographers will have a ‘model release’ that they might request you to sign.
E.g. I often use model releases when creating an artistic vision, and I want to be able to submit to publications or sell as an artistic print. I will typically also want to use my favorite images on social media platforms to promote my work.
5. Free, TFP (“Time for Prints”) are not recommended for intimate shoots, unless you can guarantee all of the above items are covered, and you feel safe/secure in doing so.
I have been both behind and in front of the camera. And although not “all” boudoir photographers are creeps, it is WAY too common to read about/experience horror stories. I even experienced one photographer who brought his children to the shoot, while requesting I take additional layers off in a public park.
After that day, I never agreed to any TFP shoots unless there were multiple adults there, including other models/photographers/MUAs, etc.
I do offer boudoir photography, with safety and comfort being my top priority. Either within your own home/space, or a studio/rented space. If you have interest, please contact me for more details.
